 Role-play
involving infant-like behaviour such as wearing nappies (diapers), nursing,
etc. An Infantilist is a person who sometimes likes to pretend that he
or she is a baby/toddler. This can include the urge to be pampered,
snuggling close by a maternal lover's side, being helpless once again in
mommy's arms or sometimes even dressing as a baby. As with most other things,
normal items of baby-life (such as diapers) can become the subject of sexual
fetish in adults. As role-play, infantilism is pretty harmless but is often
accompanied, as with many other fetishes, by feelings of shame and concern
about being a 'pervert' or 'abnormal'. Equating pedophilia and infantilism
is common, but not correct. Pedophiles abuse children, while infantilists
become children themselves. Like most other fetishes and sexual obsessions,
infantilism is likely to have its roots in childhood experiences, but this
isn't the place to delve too deeply into the genesis of so-called 'abererrant
behaviour'. In matters of sexuality, what goes on between consenting adults
is nobody elses business. |
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for BDSM Play because they're cheap, readily available, and pretty safe.
Bind and blindfold your submissive, then tease her with the touch of an
ice-cube on her skin, with nipples and genitals being favoured targets.
You can also, if you're feeling benevolent, put an ice cube in your mouth
before licking her pussy for a cool new take on cunnilingus. For all except
the most committed sadists amongst you an ice-pop inserted into pussy or
ass is probably a step too far (and for those some idea of how to treat
frostbite would be a good thing). Ice cubes are often combined with heat
(see fire and ice) by dripping hot candle wax onto
the skin and then trailing the freezing ice-cube in its wake for an interesting
and intense combination of sensations. |
